Wedding 2.0

eWedding screen shot

I used to be vehemently opposed to wedding Web sites because I thought they were a) unnecessary (don’t we already have to send save-the-dates and invitations? What more do you want from me?) and b) just kinda gross (OK, we get it! You’re cute and engaged. Jesus.). I had seen a few bad examples with nauseating “how we met” stories and wrote the idea off completely.

Now the whole wedding Web site thing is starting to grow on me, mostly because I’m really lazy and expect everything to be online (I was getting upset at churches for not having Web sites with downloadable FAQ and price sheets…so not Web 2.0). Two of my high school friends are getting married next month, and they created a great site through mywedding.com. It’s a free service, and guests can RSVP, look up directions, link to registries, check out photos and suggest songs for the reception. It’s actually pretty sweet. I may have misjudged you, wedding Web site. I’m notorious for losing things like invitations and directions, so this is a godsend. Now I can just print out the information as I’m running out the door while trying to find my shoes.

I started looking around and found another service through ewedding.com that has some really cool features. You can put up all the hotel and event information for out-of-towners, upload audio and video clips, even make fun trivia quizzes. Ooooh, like Trivial Pursuit. Games are fun. I didn’t love all of the themes, but this one seems OK (just ignore the sample groom’s goobery smile). Theknot.com also has a free wedding Web site service, but I refuse to have anything to do with those people. I think they colluded with Martha Stewart and Satan to produce an entire generation of Bridezillas, and I won’t be a part of it.

Anyway, I’m kind of excited about this new toy. Take a gander at the list of features on ewedding, and let me know what you’d like to see. Oh, Internet, what can’t you do?

4 comments

1 Ide { 06.26.08 at 12:33 am }

Gillian! I thought we had a deal! (Remember, you won’t start a wedding Web site and I won’t burst into flames when I enter the sanctuary. It would be embarrassing for you to have to explain that one of the bridesmaids is, in fact, the antichrist.)

Seriously, though, I’ll have to check those out. Anything to keep away from theknot.com. Bleh.

2 Gillian { 06.26.08 at 8:23 pm }

I’m sorry, Ide! I think the promise was that I would never make a page on theknot.com. I know this is kind of cheating, but it will save me from getting hundreds of e-mails asking how to get to the reception because people lost the printed directions. My need for everything to be instantly accessible on the Internet is winning against my distaste for wedding Web sites. I would hate to see you burst into flames…

3 Kathleen { 07.03.08 at 12:28 am }

alright… so I checked out that page with the goobery smiling groom… and I actually guessed right on where they met. Maybe I should go to their wedding.

This all makes me wonder, can anyone cruise through wedding websites? Is there any criteria for finding someone’s page? Or is there a yellow pages for wedding websites? Maybe this is how wedding crashers find their victims…

4 lynnie { 07.21.08 at 4:41 pm }

I have some small experience with wedding websites. Made one for my friend who’s getting married in August…they’re a wonder. You can post pictures on them post wedding too and keep them up so everyone can bask in your glory. I mean happiness.